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I missed her birthday

I was still in the hospital at UCSF on May 15, reveling in the transition from a liquid diet to a pureed food diet and depressed by the realization that my departure from hospital custody had been delayed at least another day.

With all the other things going on, I missed the day. May 15. My mother’s birthday. And this year I blew it.

I’m reposting something I wrote several years ago. It seems appropriate for the occasion.

My mother, Helen Yonge Lind, was born in Honolulu in 1914. She died early this year, just months short of her 99th birthday.

This is one of a series of short vignettes of life during her early years, transcribed from her original typed and handwritten notes.

Today’s contribution: Waipahu.

Most of my childhood memories are of Waipahu and the Oahu Railroad, as my father worked for the railroad as a station agent, first at Puuloa and later at Waipahu.

I have only faint memories of the Puuloa Station, which was located near today’s entrance to Hickam Field. It was a smallish structure located in the middle of cane fields on the makai side of the train tracks. On the mauka side of the tracks was a cottage where a Hawaiian couple lived and may have operated a small store. Alongside the station, a road running in the Ewa direction led to Pearl Harbor and another disappeared through the cane fields to Watertown and Fort Kamehameha.

We visited friends in Watertown where homes were built on the edge of a rocky shoreline, each with a pier extending out over the water. In the clear shallow water, you could see slithering sea creatures that we called “snakes.”

My father was transferred about 1917 to the Waipahu station, which was closer to civilization. It served a larger population and was surrounded by a number of stores and a rice mill. Not too far up Depot Road was the Waipahu plantation town. The road separated the station from the river which in the rainy season filled to overflowing and caused great flooding.

Helen Yonge Lind The station had a second story which served as the living quarters for the family. Behind the building was a small lawn area bordered by a hibiscus hedge, and beyond that was a large warehouse for goods being shipped in and out. Across the tracks from the warehouse was a large wooden water tank that serviced the train engines. In a portion of the surrounding area that was covered with bushes and weeds, my father cleared and fenced a space where he raised chickens and vegetables. By the warehouse, he raised red pidgins which provided us with the most delicious squabs.

Across the track and beyond the water tank was the entrance to a rice plantation where my sister and I spent a great deal of our time under the watchful eyes of the two oldest daughters of the Chinese family. I remember the names Ah Ting and Ah Moy. Their young brother, Ah Look, was our playmate.

We ran down the raised pathways through the rice paddies chasing flocks of rice birds and playing with the ducks. We caught frogs and small fish, and when the workers came in from the fields for lunch, we joined them in the rustic dining area sitting on stools around a quite large round table. The floor was hard-packed dirt with chickens flitting around chasing bones and bits of food from the diners. Hanging from the ceiling over the table was a large pot of rice from which we helped ourselves. The food was simple and savory and has left a lasting influence onmylife-long preference for what some call Chinese “peasant food”: salt fish, salt duck egg, fatty steamed pork (kau yuk), and green vegetables with pungent hum har sauce.

Since my father supervised the loading and shipping of the rice harvested by various rice growers in the area, our family was often invited to elaborate harvest banquets. The feasts were a sumptuous spread of many dishes elaborately prepared and delicious beyond description.

Related:

Memoirs of Haleiwa

A 1949 family luau in Waipahu

A pre-WWII picnic

More glimpses of my mother’s Hawaii in the 1920s

If it’s not one thing….

Thursday, May 21, sometime after 3:30 p.m. We were coasting into the Memorial Day weekend, and my biggest gripe was being stuck on a diet of pureed foods.

I decided to take advantage of the afternoon heat to take a shower. I skipped this ritual yesterday because it is more complicated the it would normally be. I still have a plastic tube in my gut draining small amounts of fluid from the site of my surgery, now 10 days in the past. This complicates things, as I have to be careful not to put pressure on the drain. I managed it so far by wearing a pair of underwear into the shower and clipping the plastic collection bag to it, leaving my hands mostly free.

I quickly realized things were different. Water in the shower/tub was slowly backing up. I tried moving the drain lever to the opposite position. No effect, as far as I could tell. I flipped that switch several times, hoping to hear the sounds of water draining. Nada. So I figured, okay, don’t worry about the backup. We don’t have to take showers tomorrow.

I was just starting a final rinse when the hot water expired. Yikes! If it’s not one thing, it’s another, as Gilda would say. Kids, you’ll just have to look up that reference, I guess.

So my rinse was truncated, and I stepped out. Quickly dried off, then reached down for the pair of shorts I had ready for the occasion. And that’s when I discovered the toilet had overflowed, covering more than half the bathroom floor.

A plumber had apparenty blessed the bathrooms after a recent checkup prior to our arrival. So much for advance preparations.

So there we were, an hour ago. Cursory efforts to mop up the water using bath towels grandly inadequate but the house had been empty for a while and the typical collection of household rags, as well as mops, were no longer available. Meanwhile, Meda was wiping her hands with alcohol wipes and helping replace the bandage at the site of the surgical drain.

A three ring circus.

I thought about just moving to a hotel, but realized that a have delivery of commercial pureed meals arriving tomorrow, exact timing unknown. So we’re kind of stuck.

This one hit us out of left field.

We’re waiting for the plumber to arrive. It’s 82° outside, not quite that in the house. We have two fans that we move around the different rooms as the sun changes position.

And I thought being stuck with pureed food was the biggest problem we faced.

And now some of the week’s bad news

In a post here o Monday, I promised to be back with a bit of the bad news.

It took longer than I thought, but here’s the tale.

Sunday was my first full day out of the hospital. It was also the day we were ferried down to Redwood City and set up in an empty house owned by one of Meda’s sisters. A lifesaver, indeed. But I discovered a problem.

I’m restricted to a pureed diet for at least the next week on orders of my surgeon. And I also need to include meat protein in order to stay on the recovery curve.

But my first attempt to puree and process some ground turkey failed miserably and left me almost despondent.

The instructions seem simple. Cook the meat, then cook it some more. Then puree in a blender or food processor until smooth. And, finally, push it through a strainer to remove any remaining tiny lumps. The result is supposed to be a pudding-like, gray or light brown substance that at some level should remind me of meat. Oh, it should also deliver a load of protein as well.

You have to understand. I’ve always been the cook and meal planner in our household. And here post-surgery, nothing had changed.

I had a plan for dinner. It called for a baked potato centerpiece. I would scoop out the center of the potato and put it through the puree routine, while Meda would enjoy the skin with various fixings. I had Meda and her sister buy a package of ground turkey, and my plan was to make her a simple turkey patty, while I would cook and puree some ground turkey for myself. Finally, a serving of green peas on the side. Again, Meda got the real deal, which I looked forward to pureed pea mush.

The problem is that although I had read about the cook, puree, then strain process to get a pudding-like consistency for my meal, I had never done it. And, it seems, I hadn’t thought it through enough.

This is where things quickly went downhill.

It proved impossible to create the two versions of this meal and have any chance of plating them about the same time so that Meda and I could eat together while our food was warm. And with three foods to cook, puree, and then strain, my side of the meal was much more complex than I realized. One issue is that we have very limited cutlery and dishes, and dish washing soap as well. Each stage of each food required me to stop, rinse and wash the implements from the prior stage, and begin again.

But things went from disappointing to disastrous when I was unable to properly puree and strain the ground turkey. And that means that unless I solve this problem, I have only limited ways to get the protein boost from eating meat.

I’ve tried to request additional information from a dietician at UCSF on the puree and strain process when meat is involved, and so far haven’t received anything that takes into account the problem I’ve run into. Instead, I was offered a video chat on Thursday morning (“The first appointment available,” they said).

One option is strained, Stage 1, baby food. My problem is 50 years of nursing elderly and sick cats feeding meat baby food from my finger. The smell is inextricably tied to the sad memories of sadder days. I now have samples of three different meat baby foods, and I’ll just have to test my ability to get past all of that.

Today I’ll get some canned chicken breast delivered. May it will be more cooperative.

THe nuclear option is a company, Mom’s Meals, that produces a variety of meals in categories corresponding to medical restrictions. On category is made up of pureed meals. I looked up the medical standard the company says its pureed meals meet or exceed. But when I sent what I thought was a simple question—is a meal prepared to this standard consistent with my dietary restrictions—I was again referred to Thursday’s Zoom meeting.

I’ve been loading up on commercial and homemade protein shakes until they must be oozing out of my pores.

I’m hoping that a delivery from Mom’s Meals will solve my problem. But I have to wait until tomorrow (Thursday) to get the official word.

July seems to have arrived in May

Tuesday, May 19.

88 degrees. No trade winds, so it feels like 92°.

Whatever the numbers, it is hot in Redwood City and most of the area south of San Franisco today.

People here have tricks for moving themselves around the house as the sun progresses through the day, seeking out the most pleasant room to be in at any particular time.

We lost that traditional knowledge decades ago, if we ever had time to learn it.

It’s hot. I had a shower. The fan that I moved into the living room sounds like a jet engine when it is on his high speed.

Bring it on!

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